The start of F's D diagnosis story is here. Failure to Thrive is not what you want to hear about your new baby. As a mum you want your baby to grow and thrive, so to hear that that just isn't happening is a bit crushing. From the 12th October I weighed Felicity each week at the Child Health Clinic. She was so small and her tummy was so big. She seemed to be drinking ‘enough’ but not gaining weight.
Throughout this journey I knew I was right there was something wrong. God gave me confidence to keep pushing the doctors for answers. I now wish I had pushed harder and got answers for my DD sooner but I did what I could.
In November we went to Paed 1 and although she seemed reasonably healthly he agreed she wasn't "thriving". He sent us for a test of her stool. He thought is was most probably a cows’ milk protein allergy as she was put on formula while I was in ICU. The test came back positive for alpha 1 antitrypsin for he said that something was irritating her digestive system. I started her on Neocate LCP formula on 7th November 2009 and excluded dairy and dairy containing products from my diet so I could continue to breast feed as well. She did gain weight a little bit more on this formula but not much. I tried to get to see Paed 1 again before Christmas as I didn’t think she was really responding to it but he didn’t want me to come in again. I decided that we would try annother Paed after Christmas.
In January – I went to Paed 2 as I was still very concerned about her not again weight and having very bloated looking tummy. He referred us to Paedatric Gastroentrologist.
In February - Paed Gastro did Gastroscopy at just over 7 months old. She was so small they couldn’t get the camera through the duodenum so they took pictures and a few samples. Tests came back clear. A friend with diabetes came with me to the hospital that day and actually asked the Paed Gastro if it could be diabetes but he said no. The tests ruled out most digestive problems so we were sent back to the Paed 2 to see what he said.
22nd February I did a test weigh before and after a feed at the child health clinic just to check she really was getting enough milk. 330g after a 15 minute feed She is definately getting plenty of milk.
By March Felicity was having 5 breastfeeds and 3 formula feeds per day and not really growing consistently. One of the GPs suggested a urine test for diabetes insipida but I was unable to ever get a sample. Nobody actually suggested testing for Diabetes Mellitus.
In March - Went back to Paed 2 - He said she is most probably just a small baby. I insisted on more tests I knew things just weren't right. He gave me a referral for blood tests, and possibly urine and stool samples. He said to introduce gluten containing foods (to check for coeliac disease) and then do the blood test after about 4 weeks. I introduced gluten to her diet and wait about 4 weeks. Then I had cracked nipples and I didn’t want my blood to mess with results.
In the month of waiting I also followed up on Felicity’s urine output which seemed a bit high. I got an email from the child health nurse with details on 19/4/10 I had weighed nappies for a few days prior. Felicity output of 7-10 ml/kg/hr was a bit high. Normal is 2-3ml/kg/hr The Child health nurse said it might be nothing but to mention it at the next doctors appointment. She was very helpful but I don't think she wanted to worry me too much.
I made an appointment with our GP to ask if they thought any other tests were necessary. I just wasn’t confident that Paed 2 would include enough stuff as he didn’t really think tests were necessary.
On 28th April 2010 I finally got to the GP and they rang Paed 2 and asked if separating testing and adding a couple was OK. We got the blood tests done before going home. Blood tests on an alomost 9 month old baby are not easy. F was particularly small for her age as well. I found it pretty distressing. I went home thinking that it would be good to get some answers soon. I was not expecting to hear back too soon though, tests take a couple of days usually.
BUT I got a call that night about 8:30pm from our GP to take Felicity to hospital her BGL was 29. EEK!! I was home alone with 4 sleeping children so I called my DH at work to come home ASAP.
I was surprised it was Diabetes but not that there was something major wrong.
I somehow had the presence of mind to pack a bag for hospital and have a shower before DH got home. I made a couple of calls to our parents. Both sets insisted that they would come and look after they other girls. I thankfully said yes to my mum and DH and I were both able to go the hospital.
F put on more than 1000g in less than 3 weeks after being diagnosed with diabetes. She was no longer starved for food from the inside. Even though it was a huge thing to deal with and lots to learn I was thankful for an answer to our search.